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I remember a time when I had to buy a suit for an event, and I really didn’t want to. I begrudgingly picked one out and threw it on quickly, not thinking much about the details until a friend pointed out that I was wearing gym socks with dress shoes. It was a clear mismatch, and it showed. I looked the part from the outside, but something didn’t match.
That’s exactly what the apostle Paul is getting at in Ephesians 4:1 when he urges us to “live a life worthy of the calling you have received.” In other words, don’t let your lifestyle be a mismatch with your identity in Christ. If you call yourself a Christian, you’re carrying the name of Jesus with you wherever you go. Your life is meant to reflect God’s character, love, and truth, but when your words and actions don’t align with that identity, people notice the disconnect. Just like those gym socks didn’t match my dress suit, if you’re not reflecting your calling from God, it sends a clear message that something’s off—that what you’re wearing on the outside doesn’t match who you claim to be on the inside.
So what does it look like to walk in a way that matches your calling? Paul gives us a clear picture: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians 4:2). These qualities might not be trending in today’s culture, but they’re at the core of what it means to live like Jesus. You don’t often hear humility praised; gentleness is easily mistaken for weakness, and patience can feel nearly impossible in a world that runs on instant gratification. And truthfully, loving others through their flaws and failures isn’t easy, especially when we’re disappointed or at odds with someone.
This is the wardrobe of a follower of Jesus—wearing His name well. Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself; it’s having a clear and honest view of who you are before God. Gentleness is strength under control, choosing not to lash out even when provoked. Patience gives others the benefit of the doubt and space to grow. And love is not about feelings but a choice to serve and treat others well, even when it’s hard.
This kind of character doesn’t just reflect well on you—it reflects Christ to the world around you. It’s how we live a life that’s truly worthy of our calling.
Prayer:
Lord, thank You for calling me to walk with You and live for Your purposes. Help me to walk in humility, gentleness, patience, and love. Remind me each day that my life matters and that You’ve given me a role to play in building up others. May my walk reflect my calling, and may I live in a way that honors You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
May 17 marked a significant milestone as I had the honor of officiating my seventh graduation ceremony at Moody Bible Institute. Each time I stand before a graduating class, I’m reminded that these moments are sacred, filled with both deep joy and a quiet ache. The joy is because I’ve seen these students transformed by truth, shaped in community, and ignited with calling. The ache is because sending them off means releasing them into the unknown, trusting that the same Jesus who walked with them here will continue to guide them wherever they go.
My prayer over this graduating class and over all of us is simple but bold: May your life preach louder than your words. May your failures lead you deeper into His grace. May you walk in the power of the Spirit. May your hidden obedience carry eternal impact. And may you never forget—you are sent.
by Mike Fabarez
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