Moody Radio

Instead of continually reminding your spouse about how much they hurt you, take those hurt feelings to the Lord and ask Him to help you forgive. Consider how much you've offended God, and how graciously He has forgiven you.

How can you improve your communication skills in your marriage? Your goal should be to build positive communication patterns and intimacy. Dr. Gay Chapman's book Now You're Speaking My Love Language may prove to be very helpful.

How can you tell if your anger is legitimate? The purpose of appropriate anger is always to stimulate us to actions designed to set things right.

If your spouse only says "I'm Sorry" but you still don't feel like it's a true apology, it's most likely because he's not apologizing to you in your Language of Apology.

If you are truly sorry for how you've hurt someone, you must verbally apologize. But the evidence of true sorrow should be confirmed by your change in behavior.

What is the purpose of anger? The purpose of anger is to motivate us to set things right - to stimulate us to do something constructive to correct is wrong.